In this path of continuous learning is necessary to cover the whole picture that includes the essence of the person, for that reason today I write about sex.
Today in our country, sex is not something of another world, is much more liberal and increasingly younger sexual experience, compared to previous generations, where talking or having sex was a context sensitive or inappropriate , especially for women.
I think it's good to spread this issue in schools, in the family and among friends with respect to contraception, plus you can buy a lot of knowledge from lectures and reading. However, sex is experiential in its entirety, that's the interesting thing, that's what makes it unique.
It is worth mentioning that I am not an expert on sex, I think nobody is, because everyone is different and the issue is relative. But I've had many experiences, each unique and unrepeatable. And not so much about the issue of quantity, but what is generated during intercourse. So what I think is good and healthy, based on my privacy, share with you.
remember that a while ago I wrote in one of the publications that I believe strongly that to be in harmony with others is essential to feel good about yourself, all self-help book authors and persons who engage themselves what say. When you start to take sincere aware of it and dedicate yourself to you in all aspects, see what I mean, you will feel all the energy of being right with yourself.
However, one of those things, no doubt the body. It must be accepted as it is one is, and the best way is to get rid of all the complexes create your capricious mind. Feel happy for the body you have, accept your moles, your tummy, facial features, your sex, your scars, your fingers, your hips small or too large, your operations, everything. Otherwise, there will always be a conflict with your body and you can not enjoy privacy in their entirety.
remember that 6 years ago set aside a large complex that had: big feet. Before realizing the futility of self-conscious fit 39-40 live for 12 years, I suffered a lot. I did not like to wear shorts and my parents had to buy shoes that to my way of seeing "I do see the larger foot." Not to mention when it was summer and had to wear sandals ... a torture. But growing up I realized I needed those big feet, because I'm tall and big. And terms acceptable. Since then, my feet are pretty. I count this simple example because, although it is nonsense, see the contempt a body part leads to inhibitions and even headaches!
So is well accepted completely. Start by watching you for a while, in the mirror or while bathing. You could also ask people familiar with the traits or parts of your body that will look nice, maybe a lot like what you think is horrible!
When you pass the complex, the inhibition disappears.
Another aspect that I believe is very important and affects too much on sex is the mind. Thoughts often shape, condition too. We need to open your head and let it evaporate morals, principles, religion, or any thought to prevent the flow of your being. Is ie, do not expect that it is time to think, "Now I'm open to all thoughts and let me be" because you're trying to be aware of the situation and you will be distracted, in addition we must bear in mind that one, most of the time, no plans "at this hour today I will have sex," or simply can not. So to not be thinking "not thinking" could start now to fly with your fantasies and allow you to completely invade. Lock yourself in your room to think and feel everything that you would like to do or what you did, without prejudice, is healthy.
cornered This is a point: to know yourself, be one only with you then become one with another. Because only you know what gives you pleasure and what are your weaknesses. But to do so, we must not think or analyze what is right or wrong. Who determines that? Often one does not come naturally by the habits of behavior that society demands, but if it makes you feel better ... in your room, or bathroom, or kitchen, you're only you, nobody watches, nobody judges you.
means self-stimulation and masturbation is very natural, for men and women. I think not only practiced in order to satisfy physiological needs, but also to be taken as a means to relaxation and the self, is my point of view.
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These approaches have helped me to feel the sexuality in a very different and that is transmitted or supplements when sharing with another person.
When you're with another being and infinite connection is achieved between the bodies, sex becomes a transcendent power, without limits. It's incredible, is very strong. Perhaps the other does not feel like you, perhaps you more ... but without a doubt, if you let yourself be in every way, accepting you, knowing you and getting rid of prejudice, the act itself will be different and always great, regardless of orgasm or occurring penetration.
is very important to communicate with the other person, either your partner or someone with whom you have casual sex. Sure, it's much easier to talk about intimacy with someone you know fairly well, but the "communication" is not just count your fantasies or say yes and you do not like. Fortunately there are other resources and I think they are more effective, for example, using the body itself, all that is within your reach. Since differential movements to rhythmic changes in breathing. Something aphrodisiac are the senses: hearing, taste, touch, smell and vision. Make use of them at its finest. Listen to breath sounds and other emissions, it's beautiful. Upset and full body rubs. Feel the smell and see everything around you. Lose yourself in the eye.
Let everything flow naturally, without controlling anything. The control will close and minimizes the pleasure. If you can, fulfill your fantasies. Try different positions and change of places. If you do not think you will loose! get to say and do things you would not imagine that, then you will laugh.
once read: "Behave like an animal in bed," and if you think about just a little, and would have to be ... because we are animals, you did not know the species Homo in the taxonomic classification of organisms in the Animal Kingdom, we are animals ... behave as such in the bed.
So, you lose track of time and space. You lose, really. And at that moment the soul transcends. The idea of \u200b\u200bthe meeting and merging of bodies, in and of itself, is magnificent, but experience it ... without words.
Finally, we present a text of Osho, the book " Tantra, Spirituality and Sex :" ... love opens to infinity, the eternity of life. So if you really love, Love can make a meditation technique. This is the technique: While you dear, sweet princess, falls in love and in life everlasting. Do not be a lover who keeps distances, become loving and into eternity. When you love someone as a lover are you there? If you're there, you're inside the dimension of time, and love is fake, pseudo, if you're still there and can say "am", perhaps you will be physically close but spiritually we're separated. When you're in love, you're not: you only love, you become love. Caressing your lover, your beloved, turn caress, kiss, you're not the kissing, not the one who receives the kiss I know the kiss. Forget the ego completely, dissolve in the act falls within the act so deeply that the actor disappears. " Greetings!
By Karen Alurralde.
